“Parents who do not give their children clear messages that they are loved, whether by words or appropriate displays of affection, such as being held, cuddled, hugged, kissed, having hands shaken, and being patted on the back, are not meeting their sons' and daughters' emotional needs.” ChildhoodParentingParents And ChildrenEmotional HealthEmotional NeedsEmotional NeglectKathleen Heide Author:Kathleen Heide
“Persons in dysfunctional families characteristically do not feel because they learned from a young age that not feeling is necessary for psychic survival. Family members generally learn it is too painful to feel the hurt or to experience the fear that comes from feelings of rage, abandonment, moments of terror, and memories of horror.” Childhood MemoriesChildhood TraumaDysfunctional FamiliesChildhood SufferingKathleen Heide Author:Kathleen Heide