“Even if we are married to the same person, and remain faithful to her or him for the rest of our lives, that will still not stop our desires from straying. We will continue to lust after Shah Rukh Khan or Sophia Loren even as we might stay happily married. This is the way desire operates—through fantasy rather than fact.” DesireHeteronormativity Book:Infinite Variety: A History of Desire in India Source: Infinite Variety: A History of Desire in India
“...we are always both seeing and not seeing desire around us, especially when that desire steers clear of the form of a heterosexual couple.” DesireEroticismHeteronormativity Book:Infinite Variety: A History of Desire in India Source: Infinite Variety: A History of Desire in India