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The Waiting Game: The Untold Story of the Women Who Served the Tudor Queens

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“Opinions are swayed and decisions made as commonly in the pub after work as in the office boardroom, and 'soft power' is as crucial as formal hierarchical structures. A quiet word behind the scenes, an appropriately timed gift, a well-negotiated marriage alliance - the general management of the human networks so necessary in early modern society were all forms of political agency wielded expertly by women.”

Women Power Society Hidden Network Soft

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“The Waiting Game" is designed partly as an example of what we might learn when we pay attention to those who spent much of their time in the background and who were never supposed to leave much trace behind.”

Women Attention Power Background Trace

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“While popular conduct books might airily dismiss women's words as unworthy of male attention, here they had set the whole court aflame and even caused a man's death.”

Women Power Quiet Authority Words Erasure

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“The servants of a queen, even a queen under arrest, were not usually supposed to be physically higher than she was. Did the women with her sink to the ground as well, a startled beat behind?”

Despair Authority Shock Protocol Arrest Imprisoned

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“Her death was described as 'one of the greatest blows the Duke has ever received', but nothing was mentioned about Elizabeth's undoubted grief. High mortality rates did not inure anybody to the loss of a child.”

Death Loss Grief Motherhood Mortality Child

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“These women's long-standing ability to fade into the background has served them well. To follow them as a historian is often to see them slide out of view as soon as one tries to focus the lens. But allowing light into the darker corners of any history illuminates more than just one frame. To tell Henry's reign from the perspective of ladies-in-waiting is to see the familiar become unfamiliar. We were never supposed to know these stories like this. It's important that we do.”

History Focus Importance Familiar Story Illumination Background

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“Women could be villains as well as victims, sometimes both simultaneously, and could simply make bad decisions like everybody else; Jane Parker, Viscountess Rochford's involvement in Queen Anne Boleyn and Queen Katherine Howard's downfalls could be read as an example of all three things.”

Complicated Victims Villains Examples Bad Decisions Multi Faceted Downfalls

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“The very same night, Hastings removed his wife from court and placed her in a convent sixty miles away, the early modern equivalent of being told to go and stand in the corner and think about what you had done.”

Women Marriage Punishment Convent Equivalent Time Out

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“Early modern Europe held that if a wife looked elsewhere for sex, her husband bore the blame for failing to satisfy her at home. This may even been part of the reason why Queen Anne was accused of straying with so many men. Just one liaison, and people would ask why the king had failed. Five, and attention turned to the queen's insatiable appetite, her carnal sickness, and the king became a victim of a wicked woman, not an example of failed masculinity. Anne's testimony ruined this tidy picture. Not only had the queen and her ladies-in-waiting been discussing Henry's abilities in the bedroom - something to make any man wince - but, far worse, they had been laughing at him, and now everybody knew it.”

Marriage Blame Fidelity Mockery Insatiable Physical Needs Straying

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