“Beware of men who will neither respect you nor cherish you, as a way to keep painful distance between you. They are afraid of intimacy. Superficiality is the goal of nonintimate people. Getting money and having sex are the goals of superficial couples. Sharing feelings and thoughts are the goals of truly loving, vulnerable men and women.” RelationshipsMarriageIntimacy Book:Getting to 'I Do': The Secret to Doing Relationships Right! Source: Getting to 'I Do': The Secret to Doing Relationships Right!