“I want to believe he's trying; isn't that what this is all about, what everything is all about, marriage, parenting, life? Just trying to do the best you can as often as you can?” Life PhilosophyLife And Living Book:The Confusion of Languages Source: The Confusion of Languages
“Those who have lived abroad know exactly what I mean. Our status as Americans creates an instantaneous, rarified friendship. You are in a fast food restaurant where they have odd things on the menu, makluba, zaatar, soojouk, and you are scrambling for something you recognize, pizza, or even pita, and then you hear that perfect Hello or How you doing? You gravitate toward that table of strangers, desperate, dear God, speak to me, fellow outsiders in in appropriate revealing clothing, seak to me American sweet nothings of sports and reality T.V. It’s the same anywhere. You reach for the known in an unknown place. You become friends with someone you wouldn’t be able to stand if you actually had options. Our history of Super Bowl commercials and expectations of flushable toilet paper seal us together.” FriendshipFictionNovelMiddle EastTravel WritingExpat LifeTravel LiteratureEmbassy Life Book:The Confusion of Languages Source: The Confusion of Languages
“After a dazed moment, Specialist Kit Murphy put his arms loosely around her, and Josie Schaeffer clung to him, knowing this man was not her husband, that her husband was never coming back, but for now she was as close to him as she could get and she would not let him go.” FearLossLonging Book:You Know When the Men Are Gone Source: You Know When the Men Are Gone
“There was so much he could have said and chose not to. “I didn’t pry into your past, Margaret. I don’t pry into your life before we met, so don’t do it to me.” And that was it, there was nothing more to say. I nodded my head and ever since I’ve made myself comfortable in this limbo of not knowing. Sleepless in this bed I made.” MarriageInfidelityJordanTravel WritingAmmanTravel LiteratureMiddle East FictionEmbassy Life Book:The Confusion of Languages Source: The Confusion of Languages
“The FRG … was the closest thing any of them had to family, this simulacrum of friendship, women suddenly thrown together in a time of duress, with no one to depend on but each other, all of them bereft and left behind in this dry expanse of central Texas, walled in by strip malls, chain restaurants, and highways that led to better places. Most of them had gotten used to making life for themselves without a husband, finding doctors and dentists and playgrounds, filling their cell phones with numbers and their calendars with playdates, and then the husbands would return and the Army would toss them all at some other base in the middle of nowhere to begin again.” FriendshipMilitaryArmy LifeMilitary SpouseMilitary FamiliesArmy WivesFamily Readiness GroupFort HoodFrg Book:You Know When the Men Are Gone Source: You Know When the Men Are Gone
“We depend on this give-and-take when living abroad. You can’t exile yourself from your homeland and not always feel that tidal pull of return. Those minor details, the commercial jingles and pop songs, the chain restaurants and decade-defining shades of our blue jeans, are details you don’t even think about until you are face-to-face with a society that has very little to do with your own. Suddenly those one-hit wonders become a secret language, the very vestige of American culture.” AmericaCultureTravelMiddle EastTravel WritingExpat LifeExpatsTravel Literature Book:The Confusion of Languages Source: The Confusion of Languages