“But pain may be a gift to us. Remember, after all, that pain is one of the ways we register in memory the things that vanish, that are taken away. We fix them in our minds forever by yearning, by pain, by crying out. Pain, the pain that seems unbearable at the time, is memory's first imprinting step, the cornerstone of the temple we erect inside us in memory of the dead. Pain is part of memory, and memory is a God-given gift.” WayMindFirstsMaySeemsPainRememberGivenMemoriesStepsForeverTakenCryTemplesYearningUnbearableRegisterCornerstonesImprinting Author:Sue Miller
“And I was remembering that time in our lives together, the time of those ritual walks. I was remembering the way it feels at just that moment when you begin to turn, when you’re poised exactly between the things in life you want to do and those you need to do, and it seems for a few blessed seconds that they are all going to be the same.” WayWantNeedsFeelsMomentsSeemsTogetherRememberTurnsWalksOur LivesBlessedThat MomentRitualSecondsThings In LifeLife Together Author:Sue Miller
