“If you're trying to forge bonds on something other than kinship, and forge a tribal identity on something other than relatedness, conformity is a good way to do it. And if you're wealthy, you can do it with a very expensive It bag, or whether it's Vuitton or Valentino at the moment, and it's a way to signal to one another, We're part of this tribe.” TryingMomentsIdentityWealthyConformityYou Can Do ItKinship Author:Wednesday Martin
“On the Upper East Side, women are prisoners to the ideology of intensive motherhood, which is that you should be enriching your child's well-being on every measure you possibly can at every moment. So when your kid is sitting down playing with Legos, intensive motherhood dictates that you should be engaging with him or her somehow, praising, questioning, making it into a learning opportunity. It's not enough to just tell your child, "Do your homework." It's not enough to help with the homework. You go to the school and learn how they do math, so that you can tutor your child in math.” ChildrenEnoughMomentsHelpingKidsSchoolOpportunityPraiseOur ChildrenMathMotherhoodIdeologyYour ChildrenPrisonerQuestioningHomeworkTutor Author:Wednesday Martin