“Affection is the environment of the marriage, while sex is an event. Affection is a way of life, a canopy that covers and protects a marriage. It's a direct and convincing expression of care that gives the event of sex a more appropriate context. Most women need affection before sex means much to them.” RelationshipsMarriageDatingAffairs Book:His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage Source: His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage
“Why should we make love?” If the husband is honest, he will answer with something to the effect that making love relieves his sexual craving. But the answer of most wives is very different. She will say that sex helps her feel closer to her husband. For her, it is all about intimacy and emotional bonding.” RelationshipsMarriageDating AdviceAffairs Book:His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage Source: His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage