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“When I first got on the internet as a tween, I wasn't comfortable showing up in social spaces. I didn't have a loud voice. As a function of my youth and gender, I wasn't given a voice at the dinner table, and nor maybe should I have been. But I thought I wanted one, and I was able to have it online. I wasn't a great talker, but I found these other skills. And when this stuff is described as "not real writing" or "bad for my brain" or whatever, it just seems like it's from people who wanted to keep their place at the dinner table.”

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Virginia Heffernan
Virginia Heffernan

Virginia Heffernan is an American writer known for her columns in publications such as The New York Times and The Boston Globe. Born on August 8, 1969, she graduated from Harvard University with a degree in English literature. Her writing spans a variety of topics including technology, culture, politics, and society. more

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