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“Can we always really look forward, as everyone endlessly advises us to do? Or do we have to hold on to certain key vestiges of our past- as painful, as terrible as they might be- as a way of understanding that there are certain things in life that change us so radically that they stay with us forever? Can we really close the door on that which still haunts us?”

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Book:The Moment
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The Moment

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Douglas Kennedy
Douglas Kennedy

Douglas Kennedy is an American novelist known for his profound psychological portrayals and complex character development. His works often explore themes of personal identity, moral dilemmas, and the complexities of modern life. Born on January 1, 1955, Kennedy's writing career began in the 1980s. more

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