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“The more desired relationship is one of respect and trust. If so, this change can start with a change of attitude. If you observe Self 1, in its critical posture, it looks down at Self 2 and diminishes it (in its own eyes) with its disparaging thoughts. The other possibility is to learn to look up to Self 2. This is the attitude of respect based on true recognition of its natural intelligence and capabilities. Another word for this attitude is humility, a feeling that happens naturally in the presence of something or someone you admire. As you find your way to an attitude that slopes upward toward Self 2 with respect, the feelings and thoughts that accompany the controlling and critical attitude fade and the sincerity of Self 2 emerges. With an attitude of respect, you learn to speak in the language of the respected person.”

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Timothy Gallwey
Timothy Gallwey

Timothy Gallwey (born 1938) is an American author, coach, and speaker best known for creating the 'Inner Game' theory. He studied English literature at Harvard University and began his career as a tennis coach. His 1974 book 'The Inner Game of Tennis' revolutionized performance psychology by emphasizing overcoming self-doubt and internal distractions. Gallwey's ideas have been applied to sports, business, and education, influencing millions worldwide. He is considered a pioneer in modern coaching and personal development. more

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