“In some way there is no real life. It's always the story of your life that you're living.” Quote by Aleksandar Hemon
“If you find yourself as a person in unfamiliar territory, you will grasp on to what is already familiar.” IfsPersonsFamiliarFinding YourselfTerritoryUnfamiliarUnfamiliar Territory Author:Aleksandar Hemon
“I'm kind of still down with Virg Woolf on this one: "women must kill the aesthetic ideal through which they themselves have been 'killed' into art."” KindHas BeensArtStillsIdealsAestheticOne WomanWoolf Author:Lidia Yuknavitch
“Because rage and violence are human emotions and drives and capacities that inhabit us all. SEE CARL JUNG. Or that hipster Joseph Campbell. Because we all take archetypal journeys in a million ways - literal, symbolic, you name it - that figure, disfigure, and refigure violence.” WayHumansNamesEmotionMillionsViolenceJourneyFiguresCapacityRageSymbolicLiteralHipsterHuman EmotionsJung Author:Lidia Yuknavitch
“Only the violent acts of men "count" toward something besides evil in a patriarchy. It is the male story of violence that is sanctioned both socially and aesthetically. The male hero and acts of heroism require violence. Everyone is okey dokey with that. We are only beginning to see that constricting set of truths open up a little.” MenLittlesStoriesEvilViolenceHeroMalesViolentHeroismPatriarchyViolent ActsActs Of Heroism Author:Lidia Yuknavitch
“We apply the language that is comforting and comfortable and familiar in order to grasp that which confuses and scares us. That is the first step toward cliché and stereotype, as they're comforting devices. They reduce the confusing world to the already familiar. We're always smoothing out the bumps of actual living to turn it into narratable life.” WorldFirstsOrderTurnsLanguageStepsComfortableFamiliarDevicesScareFirst StepsStereotypeConfusingComfortingBumps Author:Aleksandar Hemon
“I believe people are much more complicated than they can handle.” PeopleBelieveI BelieveComplicatedHandle Author:Aleksandar Hemon
“Birth is of course violent. Menstruation is violent. Trust me, if men's penises opened up once a month and shot blood, we'd be hearing about the violence of it.” IfsMenCoursesViolenceBloodMonthsBirthShotsHearingViolentTrust MeMenstruation Author:Lidia Yuknavitch
“The maternal impulse in animals to protect their young - that kind of instinct and subsequent violence is quite beautiful. Mythic even.” KindBeautifulYoungAnimalViolenceProtectInstinctImpulse Author:Lidia Yuknavitch
“I cannot think of a country in which I would be happy with the government and dominant ideology and available propaganda.” ThinkingCountryGovernmentWould BeAvailableIdeologyPropagandaDominant Author:Aleksandar Hemon
“When a female character sets herself on fire in an effort to interrupt her culture's violent abuse of disenfranchised people, or physically tortures and punishes her guardian rapist, or picks up a gun and fights back in ways that make her not pretty, or aggressively rejects her role as the object of desire, or even when she waddles off into the woods to squat and have a baby without the safety and expertise of hospitals and doctors, these are the kinds of violences and stories we can learn from.” PeopleWayKindCharacterStoriesDesireCultureFightingEffortRolesFireViolenceObjectsBabyPicksGunFemaleDoctorsAbuseSafetyWoodsViolentTortureRejectsHospitalsGuardianExpertiseFemale CharactersSquatNot PrettyDisenfranchisedObjects Of Desire Author:Lidia Yuknavitch