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“Women have been brought up with the false sense that they have all the options in the world. We don’t understand that the culture really isn’t offering us all of these options – there still are very strong pressures to conform. We have to step outside the culture to be able to make choices that will really give us what we want. But we lack the psychic mechanisms to do this, to really choose.”

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Dalma Heyn
Dalma Heyn

Dalma Heyn is a renowned author whose works have been widely appreciated by readers. Her exact birth and death dates are unknown. more

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