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“Our whole culture is based on the appetite for buying, on the idea of a mutually favorable exchange. .... For the man an attractive girl - and for the woman an attractive man - are the prizes they are after. 'attractive' usually means a nice package of qualities which are popular and sought after on the personality market. What specifically makes a person attractive depends on the fashion of the time, physically as well as mentally. ... Two persons thus fall in love when they feel they have found the best object available on the market, considering the limitations of their own exchange values.”

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Book:The Art of Loving: The Centennial Edition
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The Art of Loving: The Centennial Edition

This book delves into the nature of love, offering insights and guidance on how to cultivate and maintain meaningful relationships. Written by a renowned expert, it provides a timeless perspective on the art of loving, making it a valuable resource for individuals seeking to deepen their understanding of this complex emotion. more

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Erich Fromm
Erich Fromm

Erich Fromm, born on March 23, 1900 in Germany and died on March 18, 1980, was a renowned psychologist. His research covered a wide range of fields including anthropology, philosophy, and religion, particularly known for his studies on human psychology and interpersonal relationships. more

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