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“I'm not a big note-taker, so I think that the way I decide is that whatever I remember I always consider something that's important. If I remember a joke then I know it's a good joke, if I remember a story then I know it's a good story, and so that's how I curate what stories I'm going to write for the book. And I go over them again, make sure there's a theme and all that stuff, but mostly, it is intuition.”

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Kelly Oxford
Kelly Oxford

Kelly Oxford, born in 1977, is an accomplished American author known for her humorous and introspective writing. Her works focus on personal experiences, social phenomena, and women's issues, gaining popularity across various platforms including The New York Times and The New Yorker. more

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