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“However, the answer "Some people simply are transgender" doesn't seem to satisfy certain people, so they may feel compelled to seek out some kind of alternative explanation. Once again, this isn't the result of pure curiosity- after all, we don't actually understand why most people turn out to be cisgender, yet very few people ever inquire about that outcome!”

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Sexed Up: How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

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Julia Serano
Julia Serano

Julia Serano is an active writer known for her works on gender and gender identity. Born in 1967, she has been advocating for the LGBTQ+ community since the 1990s. Serano's works aim to challenge traditional gender norms and promote understanding of gender diversity. more

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