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“The thing about failing as a girl is that I did want to succeed. I wanted to be liked and accepted like anyone, but it wasn't like learning how to play the guitar or to roller-blade. It was something that was always just out of my reach, something I could never really learn to do well, no matter how much I practiced.”

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Gender Failure

This book delves into the multifaceted nature of gender, offering a diverse range of perspectives on the subject. It includes personal narratives, theoretical discussions, and critical analyses of societal norms and expectations surrounding gender. more

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Rae Spoon
Rae Spoon

Rae Spoon is a Canadian musician born in 1982. As a transgender artist, they have gained recognition in the North American indie music scene for their unique musical style and authentic songwriting. Their music blends folk, alternative rock, and electronic elements, often exploring themes of identity and self-discovery. Rae Spoon has released multiple albums and toured extensively across North America, collaborating with various independent musicians. Their work is known for emotional depth and intricate arrangements, representing a courageous voice in contemporary music. more

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