“Housing affects everything, and we continue to live in very, very segregated communities.” Quote by Melissa Harris-Perry
“Look, I grew up in, went to school in, and now live in the American South, and southern white women are interesting, complex and quirky, even the ones with racial anxieties.” LooksSchoolWhiteInterestingGrewAnxietyGrew UpSouthComplexesSouthernQuirky Author:Melissa Harris-Perry
“Stereotypes work to help divide women from recognizing their common interests.” HelpingInterestCommonDividesStereotypeRecognizingCommon Interests Author:Melissa Harris-Perry
“Think of how hard it would be to create a gender-based movement across racial lines as long as one group believes that it has to be strong while seeing the other group as passive and weak. We could also go into the stereotypes of the saucy, mercurial Latina and the docile, easily-dominated Asian woman.” ThinkingBelieveLongHardWould BeStrongLinesSeeingGroupsMovementWeakGenderPassiveStereotypeAsianLatinaDocile Author:Melissa Harris-Perry
“Having a white parent undoubtedly makes for a different childhood experience than having two black parents.” TwoDifferentParentBlackWhiteChildhood Author:Melissa Harris-Perry
“I think the idea that you're somehow rejecting whiteness if you don't identify yourself as biracial is odd because everybody engages in whiteness. If you live in America, you're doing whiteness all the time, even if you have no white people in your family.” PeopleIfsThinkingIdeasAmericaWhiteOddOur FamilyRejectingBiracialWhiteness Author:Melissa Harris-Perry
“I don't know what people mean when they ask me whether I'm embracing my whiteness. Whiteness is ubiquitous.” PeopleKnowsMeanAsksAsk MeWhiteness Author:Melissa Harris-Perry
“I don't think that a white woman is in denial when she dyes her hair blonde. And I actually think we are the most varied in terms of the choices we make about our hair. Some of it may be political or psychological, but an awful lot of it is just aesthetic, how we like to view ourselves when we look in the mirror.” ThinkingLooksMayPoliticalChoicesTermWhiteViewsHairMirrorsPsychologicalAwfulDenialAestheticBlonde Author:Melissa Harris-Perry
“I can understand how someone might read wearing a blonde wig as a desire to be white, but I suspect that the same shaming smirk can happen if you wear a big afro or any number of other hairstyles.” IfsI CanBigsMightHappensDesireWhiteNumbersSuspectsBlondeWigsHairstylesAfrosSmirk Author:Melissa Harris-Perry
“From childhood forward, our hair is one of the most critical, defining aspects of our embodied selves as black women: how we get it done... how we have to focus on it... the questions we have to answer about it... and so forth.” SelfDoneBlackAnswersFocusChildhoodHairAspectCriticalBlack WomenDefiningGet It Done Author:Melissa Harris-Perry
“I do think that we have to be careful not to assume that getting a perm or wearing a blonde wig is a desire for whiteness. It may or may not be. Listen, I live in a poor black neighborhood where women wear blue hair, green hair, and all kinds of stuff. So, I simply see it as a different set of choices.” ThinkingKindMayDifferentDesireChoicesStuffBlackPoorHairBlueGreenAssumingCarefulAll KindsNeighborhoodBe CarefulBlondeWigsWhitenessPermsBlue Hair Author:Melissa Harris-Perry