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“Parents sometimes feel that if they don't criticize their child, their child will never learn. Criticism doesn't make people wantto change; it makes them defensive.”

Quote by Laurence Steinberg

Book:You and Your Adolescent, New and Revised edition: The Essential Guide for Ages 10-25

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You and Your Adolescent, New and Revised edition: The Essential Guide for Ages 10-25

This book provides a detailed exploration of the psychological, social, and emotional changes that adolescents experience between the ages of 10 and 25. It includes practical advice for parents and caregivers on how to navigate the challenges of adolescence, foster healthy development, and build strong relationships with young adults. more

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Laurence Steinberg

Laurence Steinberg is a renowned psychologist and author. His research focuses on adolescent development and psychology, particularly on the brain development and decision-making processes of adolescents. His works have widely influenced the public's understanding of adolescent psychology. more

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