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“being a parent is not transaction ... we do not get what we give. It is the ultimate pay-it-forward endeavor: we are good parents not so they will be loving enough to stay with us but so they will be strong enough to leave us.”

Quote by Anna Quindlen

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Anna Quindlen, born on July 8, 1952, is a renowned American author known for her insightful social commentary and delicate portrayal of everyday life. Her writing career began as a newspaper editor, later transitioning to novel writing, which has been well-received by readers. more

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“An election marks the end of the affair; it puts paid to the seduction of the many by the few. Pretty words, fulsome promises. We wind up married, but to whom, to what? We cannot always predict with certainty the future leader from the winning candidate. Some men grow in the job; others are diminished by its demands and its grandeur.”

Men Ends Jobs Politics Winning Grows Leader Wind Promise Demand Married Mark Paid Election Affair Certainty Candidates Seduction Grandeur Future Leaders Pretty Words

Author:Anna Quindlen

“part of the problem with a war on poverty today is that many Americans have decided that being poor is a character defect, not an economic condition.”

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“[President Johnson] had the political will to say that having one in five Americans living in the kind of abject conditions their fellow citizens associated with Third World countries and the novels of Dickens was as dangerous as any battlefield enemy.”

“I don't understand how people learn to live in the world if they haven't had siblings. Everything I learned about negotiation, territoriality, coexistence, dislike, inbred differences and love despite knowledge I learned from my four younger siblings.”

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“Women writers of all people should know better than to pigeonhole women, put them in little groups, the smart one, the sweet one.”

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Book:Object Lessons: One True Thing; Black and Blue

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“Ethnic stereotypes are misshapen pearls, sometimes with a sandy grain of truth at their center. ... but they ignore complexity, change, and individuality.”

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“That's what makes life so hard for women, that instead of thinking that this is the way things are, we always think it's the way we are.”

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Book:Lots of Candles, Plenty of Cake: A Memoir of a Woman's Life

Source: Lots of Candles, Plenty of Cake: A Memoir of a Woman's Life

“what we call things matters. ... The words we use, and how we perceive those words, reflect how we value, or devalue, people, places, and things.”

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Book:Lots of Candles, Plenty of Cake: A Memoir of a Woman's Life

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“You're like a cake when you're young. You can't rush it or it will fall, or just turn out wrong. Rising takes patience, and heat.”

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Book:Lots of Candles, Plenty of Cake: A Memoir of a Woman's Life

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“Over the last twenty years, we've changed the world just enough to make it radically different, but not enough to make it work.”

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Author:Anna Quindlen