Quotessence
Home / Quotes / Quote by Ari Kiev

Quote by Ari Kiev

“How can you develop a self-concept linked to your untapped potential? First, you can decide on the kind of life you would like to lead in ten or fifteen years. This will give you a standard for making decisions about current activities and will reduce the inclination to compare yourself unfavorably to others. Learn to ask, "How would I handle this situation were I the person I hope to become?" And then take action in line with your vision.”

Quote by Ari Kiev

Create image

Author

Ari Kiev
Ari Kiev

Ari Kiev, born in Ukraine in 1934, was a renowned author. His works covered a wide range of fields including philosophy, psychology, and self-improvement, which were highly appreciated by readers. more

You May Also Like

“You have everything in you that Buddha has, that Christ has. You've got it all. But only when you start to acknowledge it is it going to get interesting. Your problem is you're afraid to acknowledge your own beauty. You're too busy holding on to your own unworthiness. You'd rather be a schnook sitting before some great man. That fits in more with who you think you are. Well, enough already. I sit before you and I look and I see your beauty, even if you don't.”

IfsThinkingMenWellsLooksSelfEnoughProblemChristInterestingFitSittingBusyAcknowledgeGreat MenHolding OnToo BusyEnough Already
Author:Ram Dass
Create image

“You have deep within you the power to fulfill your highest vision of your life. To engage this power you must develop a solid personal relationship with yourself. By doing so, you'll tap into a wealth of inner strength that will allow you to take the necessary actions that build confidence and self-esteem. When you learn to stop hiding your power and use fear to your advantage, you'll become less attached to what others want for you and more attached to what you want for yourself. As this shift occurs, you'll naturally begin to lead a more authentic and passionate life.”

WantSelfUseActionWealthVisionSelf EsteemHighestAdvantagePassionateWhat You WantEsteemInner StrengthHidingWithin YouDeep WithinPersonal RelationshipsPassionate LifeBuilding Confidence
Book:Stand Up for Your Life: A Practical Step-by-Step Plan to Build Inner Confidence and Personal Power
Create image

“If none of your role models provide the answer, then it is time to go within and ask yourself, "What would make me happy?" In other words, let your feelings guide you. This doesn't work well if you focus narrowly on your personal needs. I am not talking about selfishness or self-interest. When I ask, What will make you happy?, I mean, What way of loving others feels right for you? Choose a way of loving that makes you happy, and your efforts will be play rather than work.”

IfsWayNeedsFeelsWellsMeanSelfPlayFeelingsAsksInterestAnswersEffortTalkingRolesFocusModelsGuidesSelfishnessRole ModelsYou ChooseSelf InterestMake You HappyMake Me HappyNot TalkingFeels RightLoving OthersPersonal Needs
Author:Bernie Siegel
Create image

“A well-developed sense of self is a necessary if not sufficient condition of your well-being. Its presence does not guarantee fulfillment, but its absence guarantees some measure of anxiety, frustration, or despair.”

IfsWellsDoeSelfConditionsDespairAnxietyAbsenceWell BeingFulfillmentSufficientGuaranteesFrustrationSense Of Self
Book:Nathaniel Brandens Self-Esteem Every Day: Reflections on Self-Esteem and Spirituality
Create image