Home / Quotes / Quote by David Emerald Womeldorff

Quote by David Emerald Womeldorff

“Victims may be defensive, submissive, over-accommodating to others, passive-aggressive in conflict, dependent on others for self-worth, overly sensitive, even manipulative. They're often angry, resentful, and envious, feeling unworthy or ashamed about their circumstances. Have you ever felt or acted this way?”

Quote by David Emerald Womeldorff

Author

David Emerald Womeldorff

David Emerald Womeldorff, born in 1954, is of an unknown profession category. His life experience and achievements are not yet clear. more

You May Also Like

“These people are often authoritarian and rigid in their views, exerting power over others in an effort to keep others from having power over them. Persecutors may act grandiose and self-righteous to mask their own insecurity.”

People Inspirational May Self Views Effort Mask Insecurity Righteous Self Righteous Grandiose Power Over Others

Author:David Emerald Womeldorff

“When you inhabit any of these three roles, you're reacting to fear of victimhood, loss of control, or loss of purpose. You're always looking outside yourself, to the people and circumstances of life, for a sense of safety, security, and sanity.”

People Inspirational Purpose Three Loss Roles Security Circumstances Safety Sanity Reacting Victimhood

Author:David Emerald Womeldorff

“Living from the Creator Orientation is actually more challenging. In the Victim Orientation, I didn't have to exercise conscious choice; I just reacted to my circumstances.”

Choices Challenges Circumstances Exercise Conscious Victim Creator Orientation

Author:David Emerald Womeldorff

“TED-The Empowerment Dynamic-counteracts the poison of DDT, the Dreaded Dram Triangle. TED is the antidote for DDT.”

Empowerment Poison Antidote Triangles Ddt

Author:David Emerald Womeldorff

“All of life's experiences are teachers in some sense, challenging us to grow and evolve. Although the Persecutor certainly provokes a reaction, the Challenger elicits a response by encouraging the Creator to acquire new knowledge, skill, or insight. Both roles provoke change, but in different ways.”

Way Different Action Grows Challenges Roles Teacher Skills Response Creator Insight Reactions Evolve Different Ways Acquire Provoking New Knowledge

Author:David Emerald Womeldorff

“A good memory is needed after one has lied.”

Memories Needed Lied Good Memories

Author:Pierre Corneille

“Whatever I hold in my mind tends to manifest itself in my life. What we believe and assume creates most of our reality and our experience.”

Inspirational Mind Believe Reality Assuming Manifest

Author:David Emerald Womeldorff

“All victims have experienced a loss-a thwarted desire or aspiration-even if they're not aware of it.”

Ifs Desire Loss Experience Victim Aspiration

Author:David Emerald Womeldorff

“The way you talk about yourself and your life-your story-has a great deal to do with what shows up in your day-to-day experience. Your thoughts create filters through which you view your life. If you think of yourself as a Victim, you filter all that happens to you through the lens of DDT, and you find plenty of evidence to support that viewpoint. That's why the orientation you adopt is so important: it exerts a powerful influence on your life direction.”

“Persecutors, like Victims, act out of fear. The may seem fearless, but actually Persecutors are almost always former Victims.”

May Seems Fear Victim Former Fearless

Author:David Emerald Womeldorff