“TED-The Empowerment Dynamic-counteracts the poison of DDT, the Dreaded Dram Triangle. TED is the antidote for DDT.” Quote by David Emerald Womeldorff
“All of life's experiences are teachers in some sense, challenging us to grow and evolve. Although the Persecutor certainly provokes a reaction, the Challenger elicits a response by encouraging the Creator to acquire new knowledge, skill, or insight. Both roles provoke change, but in different ways.” WayDifferentActionGrowsChallengesRolesTeacherSkillsResponseCreatorInsightReactionsEvolveDifferent WaysAcquireProvokingNew Knowledge Author:David Emerald Womeldorff
“A good memory is needed after one has lied.” MemoriesNeededLiedGood Memories Author:Pierre Corneille
“Whatever I hold in my mind tends to manifest itself in my life. What we believe and assume creates most of our reality and our experience.” InspirationalMindBelieveRealityAssumingManifest Author:David Emerald Womeldorff
“All victims have experienced a loss-a thwarted desire or aspiration-even if they're not aware of it.” IfsDesireLossExperienceVictimAspiration Author:David Emerald Womeldorff
“The way you talk about yourself and your life-your story-has a great deal to do with what shows up in your day-to-day experience. Your thoughts create filters through which you view your life. If you think of yourself as a Victim, you filter all that happens to you through the lens of DDT, and you find plenty of evidence to support that viewpoint. That's why the orientation you adopt is so important: it exerts a powerful influence on your life direction.” IfsThinkingWayImportantStoriesShowsHappensViewsDealsPowerfulSupportInfluenceEvidenceExperienceVictimPlentyAbout YourselfDay To DayLensesThink Of YouOrientationViewpointsFiltersLife DirectionDdt Author:David Emerald Womeldorff
“Persecutors, like Victims, act out of fear. The may seem fearless, but actually Persecutors are almost always former Victims.” MaySeemsFearVictimFormerFearless Author:David Emerald Womeldorff
“Persecutors fear loss of control. Rescuers fear loss of purpose. Rescuers need Victims-someone to protect or fix-to bolster their self-esteem.” NeedsSelfPurposeFearLossSelf EsteemProtectVictimEsteem Author:David Emerald Womeldorff
“The Coach is the antidote to the Victim's Rescuer in the DDT...Mainly, a Coach supports, assists, and facilitates the Creator in manifesting a desired outcome. A Coach holds others to be whole, resourceful, and creative...They help you dig deep inside yourself to gain clarity about what you want to create in your life.” WantWholeHelpingSupportCreativeGainsVictimCreatorWhat You WantCoachesClarityOutcomesManifestAntidoteDeep InsideFacilitateDig DeepResourcefulDdt Author:David Emerald Womeldorff
“Every Victim requires a Persecutor. But the Persecutor isn't always necessarily a person. The Persecutor could also be a condition or a circumstance. A persecuting condition might be a disease or a heart attack, or an injury. A persecuting circumstance could be a natural disaster, like a hurricane or an earthquake or a house burning down.” HeartPersonsMightEarthHouseNaturalConditionsCircumstancesDiseaseVictimDisasterBurningInjuryHurricanesEarthquakesHeart AttackNatural DisasterBurning Down Author:David Emerald Womeldorff
“Your life is a kind of laboratory where you're constantly experimenting with your own higher knowing, always increasing your capacity to design the life you choose. Human beings must create; it's hardwired. The question is, are you consciously creating or only sleepwalking through your human life?” LifeHumansKindLife IsHuman BeingsKnowingDesignHigherCreatingCapacityHuman LifeYou ChooseLaboratoryFunny SleepSleepwalking Author:David Emerald Womeldorff