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“Certain temperaments respond to anxiety by pulling inward. Their instincts tell them ' Don't go out to meet the world - you'll have a panic attack. Inside is where safety is.”

Quote by Aimee Liu

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Aimee Liu
Aimee Liu

Aimee Liu is a celebrated author whose works frequently examine the complexities of cultural identity and the immigrant experience. Born in April 1953, she has made substantial contributions to the literary world through her distinctive storytelling and insightful perspectives. more

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