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“Extroverts are more attuned to social rewards, so they are more likely to flash a smile for effect. A notable exception are introverts - like me - whom I call "socially accessible" introverts. We have been trained well to smile and nod, which can place a burden on our processing efforts.”

Quote by Laurie Helgoe

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Laurie Helgoe is a psychologist born on December 10, 1960. She is renowned for her contributions to the field of mental health, particularly in the areas of interpersonal relationships and emotional issues. more

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