“The events we most desire do not happen; or, if they do, it is neither in the time nor in the circumstances when they would have given us extreme pleasure.” IfsHappensDesireGivenPleasureEventsCircumstancesExtremesAnticipation Author:Jean de la Bruyere
“How much wit, good-nature, indulgences, how many good offices and civilities, are required among friends to accomplish in some years what a lovely face or a fine hand does in a minute!” YearsDoeHandsFacesBeautyMinutesFineOfficeAccomplishWitLovelyIndulgenceCivilityGood NatureGood OfficeLovely Face Author:Jean de la Bruyere
“A look of intelligence is what regularity of features is to women: it is a styule of beauty to which the most vain may aspire. [Fr., L'air spirituel est dans les hommes ce que la regularite des traits est dans les femmes: c'est le genre de beaute ou les plus vains puissent aspirer.]” LooksMayBeautyAirVainGenreFeaturesPlusTraitsAspireRegularityFemme Author:Jean de la Bruyere
“Physiognomy is not a guide that has been given us by which to judge of the character of men: it may only serve us for conjecture. [Fr., La physionomie n'est pas une regle qui nous soit donnee pour juger des hommes; elle nous peut servir de conjecture.]” MenMayHas BeensCharacterGivenJudgingGuidesConjectureCharacter Of A ManPhysiognomy Author:Jean de la Bruyere
“Incivility is not a Vice of the Soul, but the effect of several Vices; of Vanity, Ignorance of Duty, Laziness, Stupidity, Distraction, Contempt of others, and Jealousy.” SoulCharacterEffectsIgnoranceDutyVicesStupidityVanityContemptDistractionLazinessIncivility Author:Jean de la Bruyere
“Children have neither past nor future; and that which seldom happens to us, they rejoice in the present. [Fr., Les enfants n'ont ni passe ni avenir; et, ce qui ne nous arrive guere, ils jouissent du present.]” ChildrenHappensPastChildhoodRejoice Author:Jean de la Bruyere
“What is certain in death is somewhat softened by what is uncertain; it is an indefiniteness in the time, which holds a certain relation to the infinite, and what is called eternity.” DeathCertainEternityRelationInfiniteUncertain Author:Jean de la Bruyere
“The rarest things in the world, next to a spirit of discernment, are diamonds and pearls. [Fr., Apres l'esprit de discernement, ce qu'il y a au monde de plus rare, ce sont les diamants et les perles.]” WorldSpiritNextPlusDiamondPearlsJewelsDiscernmentDiamonds And Pearls Author:Jean de la Bruyere
“Discretion is the perfection of reason, and a guide to us in all the duties of life; cunning is a kind of instinct, that only looks out after our immediate interests and welfare. Discretion is only found in men of strong sense and good understanding; cunning is often to be met with in brutes themselves, and in persons who are but the fewest removes from them.” MenLooksKindPersonsReasonFoundStrongUnderstandingInterestDutyMetsPerfectionInstinctGuidesWelfareRemoveCunningBrutesDiscretionGood Understanding Author:Jean de la Bruyere
“A simple garb is the proper costume of the vulgar; it is cut for them, and exactly suits their measure, but it is an ornament for those who have filled up their lives with great deeds. I liken them to beauty in dishabille, but more bewitching on that account.” SimpleCuttingAccountsFilledDeedsSuitsCostumesVulgarOrnamentsFilled Up Author:Jean de la Bruyere