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You and Your Adolescent, New and Revised edition: The Essential Guide for Ages 10-25

This book provides a detailed exploration of the psychological, social, and emotional changes that adolescents experience between the ages of 10 and 25. It includes practical advice for parents and caregivers on how to navigate the challenges of adolescence, foster healthy development, and build strong relationships with young adults. more

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Laurence Steinberg
Laurence Steinberg

Laurence Steinberg is a renowned psychologist and author. His research focuses on adolescent development and psychology, particularly on the brain development and decision-making processes of adolescents. His works have widely influenced the public's understanding of adolescent psychology. more

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“The parent-adolescent relationship is like a partnership in which the senior partner (the parent) has more expertise in many areasbut looks forward to the day when the junior partner (the adolescent) will take over the business of running his or her own life.”

“What causes adolescents to rebel is not the assertion of authority but the arbitrary use of power, with little explanation of therules and no involvement in decision-making. . . . Involving the adolescent in decisions doesn't mean that you are giving up your authority. It means acknowledging that the teenager is growing up and has the right to participate in decisions that affect his or her life.”

“The colicky baby who becomes calm, the quiet infant who throws temper tantrums at two, the wild child at four who becomes seriousand studious at six all seem to surprise their parents. It is difficult to let go of one's image of a child, say goodbye to the child a parent knows, and get accustomed to this slightly new child inhabiting the known child's body.”

“Often, when there is a conflict between parent and child, at its very hub is an expectation that the child should be acting differently. Sometimes these expectations run counter what is known about children's growth. They stem from remembering oneself, but usually at a slightly older age.”