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“When we’ve been betrayed, we feel like we’ve discovered the truth about someone. But in fact all we’ve done is discover one truth about them. We’ve discovered that they can do this bad thing. Fine. Now we know. And, of course, it’s devastating. But where does that leave us? Knowing this bad truth about someone doesn’t mean that no good truth about them is possible. Not at all. The person who betrayed us might well turn out to be someone who is genuinely sorry and has a real capacity for regaining our trust.”

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Mira Kirshenbaum
Mira Kirshenbaum

Mira Kirshenbaum is a renowned author, born on October 2, 1945. Her works span various fields, including psychology, communication skills, and career development. more

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