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“...quando perdi qualcuno e questo qualcuno ti manca, tu soffri perché la persona assente si è trasformata in un essere immaginario: irreale. Ma il tuo desiderio di lei non è immaginario. Così è a quello che devi aggrapparti: al desiderio. Perché è reale.”

Quote by Jonathan Coe

Book:The House of Sleep
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The House of Sleep

This book delves into the complexities of sleeplessness, examining how it shapes personal relationships, memories, and the fabric of reality. more

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Jonathan Coe
Jonathan Coe

Jonathan Coe is a renowned British novelist known for his unique sense of humor and profound insights into social issues. His works are typically set in London, exploring the complexities of modern life. more

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