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“When I look at my friend's marriages, with their routine day-to-dayness, they actually seem far more romantic than any dating relationship might be. Dating seems romantic, but for the most part it's an extended audition. Marriage seems boring, but for the most part it's a state of comfort and acceptance. Dating is about grand romantic gestures that mean little over the long-term. Marriage is about small acts of kindness that bond you over a lifetime. It's quietly romantic. He makes her tea. She goes to the doctor appointment with him. They listen to each other's daily trivia. They put up with each other's quirks. They're there for each other.”

Quote by Lori Gottlieb

Book:Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough
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Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough

This book delves into the idea that finding a compatible and loving partner may sometimes mean compromising on certain ideals. It examines the benefits of settling for a 'Mr. Good Enough' and the potential pitfalls of holding out for a perfect match. more

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Lori Gottlieb
Lori Gottlieb

Lori Gottlieb is an American writer born on December 20, 1966. Her works primarily focus on themes such as personal growth, interpersonal relationships, and mental health, which have won her a wide audience. more

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