“Never assume that all is well when it comes to your savings or loans. Get a printout to ensure you know exactly what is happening.”
Source: Money Moves That Matter: Simple Steps to Become Debt Free
“Either fill pitchers or live by the river”
“We work hard to ensure an increase in investment, income, profit, savings, etc.”
“The goal of an emergency fund is to bail you from going to jail while your savings account is about buying you more options. The role of investing is to give you more time freedom.”
“Right now, fewer than one third of adults over age 50 have started saving for long-term care, one in three employed adults aged 55-64 has no savings for retirement, and another one third have less than one year's salary in savings. It used to be easier to save in a more stable market when more jobs were full-time with reliable benefit programs, when the cost of college wasn't so astronomical.”
Source: The Age of Dignity: Preparing for the Elder Boom in a Changing America
“Almost drowned in her pussy, so I swam to her butt. What did that mean, Ilil Wayne? The only way that lyric made any sense was if he had been shrunk down Magic School Bus-style.”
Source: Margo's Got Money Troubles
“Here is your four-step plan to stay alive:
1. Accept the fact that you might consider suicide after a bad relapse. Do that now.
2. In the minutes and hours after a relapse, give yourself permission to ignore the consequences of your relapse. Don't think about the lost money, or the consequences for family, work, or your own self-worth.
3. Wait four days before taking any direct action to address your gambling issues. Do not gamble during this time. Do not chase your losses. Do not "confess" to a significant other during this time. Do not rob a bank to cover your losses. Wait four days to make plans for recovery. Wait until your brain both is willing and able to help you make good decisions.
4. After four days, start to restore hope. Call the state helpline, get a recommendation for a therapist. In most cases the state will pay for therapy. Then go see the therapist. Find a GA meeting and start attending. Make thoughtful, careful plans about how to go about discussing your addiction with loved ones and how to deal with your financial problems.
But most of all, understand that there is hope for you to live a life free of gambling. Thousands upon thousands have recovered. You can too.”
Source: Gambling Addiction: The complete guide to survival, treatment, and recovery from gambling addiction.
“The first step in that preparation begins now, well ahead of the relapse. Get out a three by six index card and write these thoughts on it:
- 1-800-273-8255 (National Suicide Prevention Hotline)
- This will pass
- My brain can’t be trusted right now
- I won’t kill myself today (I can always do it tomorrow)
- For now, I will IGNORE, IGNORE, IGNORE, IGNORE
- 1-800-273-8255”
Source: Gambling Addiction: The complete guide to survival, treatment, and recovery from gambling addiction.
“Put these steering wheel cards and things somewhere in your car. Put your radio station of choice on one of your preset buttons. Do this now. Don’t wait. Then, if you relapse and when you get to the casino before you go in, take them out and put them on your seat or steering wheel. Set your radio to the station you have chosen, so that all you need to do is turn it on. Please don’t avoid doing this because you might be embarrassed or think it’s stupid. So what if it’s stupid? You are at the casino. You are already being stupid. Not to mention, these simple stupid actions just might save your life.”
Source: Gambling Addiction: The complete guide to survival, treatment, and recovery from gambling addiction.
“Immediately after you step through the exit of the casino and find yourself outside, stop. Then look at your hands for ten seconds. Examine them, turn them over, look at the lines, the freckles, the dirt under your fingernails or your chipped nail polish. Really focus, really study them, for ten full seconds. This is a surprisingly powerful mindfulness technique. It forces you to jump back into the present, thereby interrupting your thoughts about what just happened.”
Source: Gambling Addiction: The complete guide to survival, treatment, and recovery from gambling addiction.