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“'Maybe' is what gets us into trouble, because I think constantly women are saying I'll try to do it, maybe I'll do it, I'll do it if I can," and then they're feeling guilty when inevitably they can't do everything.”

Quote by Debora Spar

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Debora Spar is a renowned scholar and author, known for her insights into the fields of business, management, and education. Born in 1963, she has a rich academic background and professional career. more

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