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Lenore Skenazy
Lenore Skenazy

Lenore Skenazy is an American columnist recognized for her advocacy of child independence and freedom. She became a national figure in 2008 when she allowed her then-9-year-old son to ride the subway alone, igniting a national debate on parenting and child safety. Skenazy writes on a variety of topics, including parenting, technology, and social issues. more

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