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“Once a big loss has happened it is part of the picture forever. Not something you "get over." While each loss has felt specific, one thing I miss with each loss is entirely selfish, I miss the way a particular person saw me, understood me. But part of the challenge of being alive is to remain curious in any circumstance and this has helped me with grief. I want to feel all the contours and contradictions of living.”

Quote by Victoria Redel

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Victoria Redel
Victoria Redel

Victoria Redel is an accomplished American poet, born on April 9, 1959. Her work is known for its unique style and profound insights into life. more

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