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“I know it's not strictly sex that accounts for my straying the motive usually attributed to men. I think it's just too tempting to have two lives rather than one. Some people think that too much travel begets infidelity: Separation and opportunity test the bonds of love. I think it's more likely that people who hate to make choices to settle on one thing or another are attracted to travel. Travel doesn't beget a double life. The appeal of the double life begets travel.”

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Elisabeth Eaves
Elisabeth Eaves

Elisabeth Eaves is a British author known for her work on political, social, and gender issues. Born in 1971, she has written extensively on a variety of topics, making her mark with her in-depth research and incisive analysis. Eaves' books and articles often delve into complex social issues of the contemporary world. more

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