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“The perfect life, the perfect lie, I realised after Christmas, is one which prevents you from doing that which you would ideally have done (painted, say, or written unpublishable poetry) but which, in fact, you have no wish to do. People need to feel that they have been thwarted by circumstances from pursuing the life which, had they led it, they would not have wanted; whereas the life they really want is precisely a compound of all those thwarting circumstances.”

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Out of Sheer Rage: In the Shadow of D. H. Lawrence

Geoff Dyer's memoir delves into his personal and intellectual engagement with the works of D. H. Lawrence, examining the profound impact Lawrence's writing had on Dyer's own development as a writer and thinker. The book combines personal anecdotes with critical analysis, offering a unique perspective on the enduring legacy of D. H. Lawrence. more

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Geoff Dyer
Geoff Dyer

Geoff Dyer is a British writer known for his distinctive travel literature and essays. His works often use travel as a backdrop to explore themes of personal identity, cultural differences, and memory. more

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