“Unrequited love may be painful, but it is safely painful, because it does not involve inflicting damage on anyone but oneself, a private pain that is as bittersweet as it is self-induced. But as soon as love is reciprocated, one must be prepared to give up the passivity of simply being hurt and take on the responsibility of perpetrating hurt oneself.”
This novel delves into the multifaceted nature of love, examining its various forms and the impact it has on human lives. more
Alain de Botton is a Swiss writer and philosopher known for his books on philosophy, art, and culture. His work is characterized by its accessible exploration of profound themes, which has won him a wide audience. more
“Human sexuality makes farcical our most serious intentions.”
“I like stripper shoes. I like being tall because I'm claustrophobic.”
“Would it upset men if they found out we weren't different? Are we? Aren't we? Damned if I know.”
“I care for riches, to make gifts.”
“The greatest giver of alms is cowardice.”