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“Many children grow through adolescence with no ripples whatever and land smoothly and predictably in the adult world with both feet on the ground. Some who have stumbled and bumbled through childhood suddenly burst into bloom. Most shake, steady themselves, zigzag, fight, retreat, pick up, take new bearings, and finally find their own true balance.”

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Stella Chess

Stella Chess, born in 1914 in the United States, was a renowned author. Her works spanned various literary genres, including novels, poetry, and drama. Chess's writing is known for its profound emotion and unique narrative style. Her writing career spanned half a century, and she had a profound impact on contemporary literature. more

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