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The History of Childhood: The Untold Story of Child Abuse

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Lloyd deMause
Lloyd deMause

Lloyd deMause is a renowned psychoanalyst born in September 1931. His research focuses on the intersection of child development, family dynamics, and historical psychology. DeMause is known for his work on child abuse and neglect, which has provided new insights into the field of psychology. His theories have had a profound impact on understanding child development and the history of society. more

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