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“My instinct tells me "purpose" is maybe the enemy of a good personal essay. In my own experience, I'm always lost and wandering and searching - where am I? how'd I get in this mess? what's the point? - right through to the final draft, and sometimes even beyond that - baffled and defeated still, confused as to purpose long after the thing's in print. I never really have a guiding purpose or a point, not at the outset, anyway. It's like life: It's all discovered en route.”

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Charles D'Ambrosio
Charles D'Ambrosio

Charles D'Ambrosio is an American short story writer known for his concise and profound writing style. His works often explore themes of human relationships, moral dilemmas, and the essence of human existence. Born in 1958, D'Ambrosio's short stories have gained widespread recognition in the literary world. more

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