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“A girl must allow others to share the responsibility for care, thus enabling others to care for her. She must learn how to care inways appropriate to her age, her desires, and her needs; she then acts with authenticity. She must be allowed the freedom not to care; she then has access to a wide range of feelings and is able to care more fully.”

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Jeanne Elium

Jeanne Elium, born in 1947, is an accomplished author known for her profound insights and unique narrative style. Her works span various genres and have gained recognition for their depth and originality. more

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