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“Suppose we begin to use it, as you say we should. And then, as more and more little girls acquire Láadan and being to speak a language that expresses the perceptions of women rather than those of men, reality will begin to change. Isn't that true?”

Quote by Suzette Haden Elgin

Book:Native Tongue
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Native Tongue

This book is a speculative fiction narrative that delves into the impact of language on individual and collective identity, set in a world where language shapes not only communication but also the very essence of a person's being. more

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Suzette Haden Elgin
Suzette Haden Elgin

Suzette Haden Elgin (November 18, 1936 – January 27, 2015) was an American linguist, science fiction author, and feminist activist. She is best known for creating the constructed language Láadan, designed to express women's perspectives and experiences. Her works include the Native Tongue trilogy and numerous linguistic studies. She explored themes of gender, power, and social structures through language and literature, leaving a lasting impact on feminist science fiction and linguistics. more

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