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“When someone shows you how little you mean to them and you keep coming back for more, before you know it you start to mean less to yourself. You are made up of compartments! You are one whole person! What gets said to you gets said to all of you, ditto, what gets done. Being treated like shit is not an amusing game or a transgressive intellectual experiment. It’s something you accept, condone, and learn to believe you deserve. This is so simple. But I tried so hard to make it complicated.”

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Book:Not That Kind of Girl: A Young Woman Tells You What She's "Learned"
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Lena Dunham
Lena Dunham

Lena Dunham is an American filmmaker renowned for her work in television and film. She achieved widespread acclaim for creating and starring in the HBO series 'Girls', which she also wrote and directed. Born on May 13, 1986, Dunham has made a significant impact in the entertainment industry, particularly for her portrayal of nuanced female characters and her unique approach to storytelling. more

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