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“Sure, sometimes it is great when, in prayer, we can express to God just what we feel; but better still when, in the act of praying, our feelings change. Liturgy is not, in the end, open to our emotional whims. it re-points the person praying, taking him somewhere else.”

Quote by Lauren F. Winner

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Mudhouse Sabbath

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Lauren F. Winner
Lauren F. Winner

Lauren F. Winner is an American author born on October 13, 1976. Her works primarily focus on religion, literature, and theology, known for her profound insights and elegant writing style. more

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