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“Un enfant ne pouvait pas vous trouver ennuyeux, pas avant longtemps en tout cas. Peut-être même son propre enfant ne vous trouvait-il jamais ennuyeux, même après bien des années, peut-être pouvait-on rester pour lui un être unique, différent de tous les autres, et pour cette seule raison infiniment précieux.”

Quote by Elizabeth von Arnim

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The Enchanted April

In 'The Enchanted April,' the narrative unfolds as four women from different walks of life find solace and inspiration in a remote Italian villa. Their time away from their respective cities and routines allows for personal growth, introspection, and the forging of unexpected friendships. The novel is celebrated for its evocative setting and the exploration of themes of self-discovery and the power of travel. more

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Elizabeth von Arnim
Elizabeth von Arnim

Elizabeth von Arnim, born on August 31, 1866, and died on February 9, 1941, was a prominent German novelist of the late 19th and early 20th centuries. Known for her unique female perspective and delicate emotional descriptions, she left a lasting impact on German literature. more

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