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“A las niñas les decimos: Puedes tener ambición, pero no demasiada. Debes intentar tener éxito, pero no demasiado, porque entonces estarás amenazando a los hombres. Si tú eres el sostén económico en tu relación con un hombre, finge que no lo eres, sobre todo en público, porque si no lo estarás castrando. [...] ¿Por qué el éxito de una mujer ha de ser una amenaza para un hombre?”

Quote by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

Book:We Should All Be Feminists
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We Should All Be Feminists

This essay delves into the importance of feminism and its relevance in contemporary society, emphasizing the need for gender equality across various aspects of life. more

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Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie is a renowned Nigerian author whose works delve into the intricacies of African life and identity. Born on September 15, 1977, she has garnered international recognition for her novels and short stories. more

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