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“Some people count only what they seek as life: fame, wealth, adventure, happiness What they make happen, to others and to themselves, and what they make impossible, for others and themselves. For me, anything that happens is life.”

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Yiyun Li
Yiyun Li

Yiyun Li, born on November 4, 1972, is a prominent Chinese writer known for her profound character portrayal and unique narrative style. Her works have won wide acclaim from readers. more

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