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“[He] seemed to possess, beneath it all, an immutable sense of self-assurance, but in addition to that, the look of a man ensnared by what he perceived to be his own Duty. A Duty that effervesced inside of him impatiently, dry at the mouth, shaking feverishly, and holding its breath in anticipation for—not his action, but in fact—the fruits of his actions, however distant these may have been. The goal was to satiate its thirst in as few moves as possible, instilling each action with an almost implied necessity for having a motive by which it must exist, which is to say that no action was to be wasted for anything, but only for that which was rooted in some definable and clear-cut purpose...Every action had to be a step in some direction and there could be no dillydallying, for Duty bubbling in the bloodstream for too long brought with it a kind of sickness...from which it was difficult to recover. Neither could there be any reconsideration, for the values to which one has sworn were unassailable and beyond the powers of one individual to reassess. And so, Duty, once instilled, must be allowed to carry on unabated, diverting sustenance away from other aspects of one’s character—driving them to a weakened state, brow-beaten by circumstances beyond their immediate control and relegated to their own downtrodden acquiescence to the bravado of the Parasitic Superego, and, as such, cognizant of their growing superfluity.”

“The parents' failure to serve as models of disciplined self-restraint or to restrain the child does not mean that the child grows up without a superego. On the contrary, it encourages the development of a harsh and punitive superego based largely on archaic images of the parents, fused with grandiose self-images. Under these conditions, the superego consists of parental introjects instead of identifications. It holds up to the ego an exalted standard of fame and success and condemns it with savage ferocity when it falls short of that standard. Hence the oscillations of self-esteem so often associated with pathological narcissism.”

“Membayangkan Surga Apa yang kau lihat di layar yang berpendar ini, Kay? Serupa senja yang tumbuh dari sebatang pohon di sebuah tempat yang kau bayangkan seperti surga. Cahaya lampu itu menyapu wajahmu dengan warna lembayung dan berkilau seperti pelangi. Tapi tak ada apa pun kutemukan pada seri wajahmu selain nafsu yang tertahan dan seulas senyum kemesuman. Tepat di puncak penantian dari segala perhatian yang tertuju pada dirimu. Mata yang tak pernah menyadari tersesat dalam raga belia yang entah milik siapa. Aura kemudaan yang berasa sia-sia. Telah kau reguk semua kebahagiaan dari ekspresi wajah tolol yang ditunggangi oleh nafsu alter egonya. Atau barangkali, telah habis kau hirup wangi kelopak mawar hitam yang tumbuh di ranjangmu setiap pagi. Sudah lama sekali rasanya waktu berlalu. Seperti ketika, kau masih suka nongkrong di cafe sambil meneguk cappucino dari cangkir porselen yang perlahan mulai retak. Sementara laju usia mengalir di tenggorakanmu yang bening bagai pualam. Waktu meninggalkan jejak buta di dalam handphonemu. Menyisakan tatap mata orang yang tak lagi mampu menafsirkan apa yang telah engkau lakukan. Bukankah, mereka tak lagi melihatmu sebagaimana adanya dirimu saat ini atau sepuluh tahun dari sekarang? Tak satu pun dari mereka percaya bahwa usiamu belum lewat dua puluh tahun. Siapa mendamba merah muda anggur kirmizi yang tumbuh di dadamu? Tak satu pun telinga sanggup melawan sihir dari gelak tawamu yang getir. Mata bodoh yang tak sanggup melupakan bayangan pisang matang kau kunyah dengan brutal sebagai kudapan di tengah jeda pertunjukan. Hidup tak seperti kecipak ikan di dalam aquarium transparan tertanam di dinding. Air kolam di pekarangan menjelma jadi bayangan jemari tak henti menggapai. Gelembung kekhawatiran yang tak sanggup memahami makna puisi yang sengaja ditulis untuk mengabadikan namamu. Taman yang kau bayangkan itu, Kay bukanlah surga yang sesungguhnya. Di sana tak ada sungai keabadian atau pangeran tampan yang menunggu kehadiranmu dengan kerinduan. Yang ada cuma kelebat kilat dan hujan airmata hitam. Mengucur seperti lendir laknat yang mengalir dari hidungmu saat kau meradang karena influensa. Tak ada satu hal pun yang menyenangkan, Kay. Hanya sedikit tersisa cerita yang busuk dan menjijikkan sebagai satu-satunya obrolan untuk perintang waktu. 2024 - 2025”

“Western man discovered and colonised the world, then went on to reach for the stars, yet the enemies of the West are intent on sending Western man crawling back to the primitive call of the id. Instant unevolved animalistic pleasure is now the order of the day as the enemies of the West seek to undermine and destroy everything that once imparted the Western superego to the next generation.”

“The daimonic refers to the power of nature rather than the superego, and is beyond good and evil. Nor is it man's 'recall to himself' as Heidegger and later Fromm have argued, for its source lies in those realms where the self is rooted in natural forces which go beyond the self and are felt as the grasp of fate upon us. The daimonic arises from the ground of being rather than the self as such.”

“I've always had a very developed superego. I also had a very powerful id, but there was no ego in the middle. So writing was always like letters sent from the id to the superego, saying, "What's going on here?" What I loved about writing was that I was totally weightless. I was amazed at the fact that I could be myself without being afraid that anyone would get hurt.”

“It doesn’t matter how many years go by, how much therapy I embark on, how much I try to achieve that elusive thing known as perspective, which is supposed to put all past wrongs into their rightful and diminished place, that happy place where all the talk is of lessons learned and inner peace. No one will ever understand the potency of my memories, which are so solid and vivid that I don’t need a psychiatrist to tell me they are driving me crazy. My subconscious has not buried them, my superego has not restrained them. They are front and center, they are going on right now.”

“Society attacks early, when the individual is helpless. It enslaves him almost before he has tasted freedom. The 'ologies' will tell you how its done Theology calls it building a conscience or developing a spirit of selflessness. Psychology calls it the growth of the superego. Considering how long society has been at it, you'd expect a better job. But the campaigns have been badly planned and the victory has never been secured.”

“Our knowledge of the historical worth of certain religious doctrines increases our respect for them, but does not invalidate our proposal that they should cease to be put forward as the reasons for the precepts of civilization. On the contrary! Those historical residues have helped us to view religious teachings, as it were, as neurotic relics, and we may now argue that the time has probably come, as it does in an analytic treatment, for replacing the effects of repression by the results of the rational operation of the intellect.”