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De Profundis and Other Writings

This compilation includes Wilde's profound and introspective essay 'De Profundis,' which delves into his personal struggles and spiritual journey. The volume also features a selection of his letters and other writings, offering insights into his thoughts on art, society, and the human condition. more

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Oscar Wilde
Oscar Wilde

Oscar Wilde, born on October 16, 1854, in Ireland, and died on November 30, 1900, was a renowned Irish writer, playwright, and poet. His works are known for their wit, satire, and unique style, with notable works including 'The Picture of Dorian Gray' and 'Lady Windermere's Fan'. more

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