“Look for reasons to say 'yes' instead of 'no,' he reminded me. Screen in rather than constantly screening out. Always ask yourself this: If an interesting guy were right in front of you, would you honestly turn that person away because of a few pounds or inches, or a sentence in a profile that you don't like? If so, that's fine. Just don't complain when you can't find anybody suitable because you've eliminated every potential guy on a technicality. Because if these guys eliminated people on technicalities, they probably wouldn't date you, either.”
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Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough
This book delves into the idea that finding a compatible and loving partner may sometimes mean compromising on certain ideals. It examines the benefits of settling for a 'Mr. Good Enough' and the potential pitfalls of holding out for a perfect match. more
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Lori Gottlieb
Lori Gottlieb is an American writer born on December 20, 1966. Her works primarily focus on themes such as personal growth, interpersonal relationships, and mental health, which have won her a wide audience. more
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